But it makes me wonder..why would they want to prevent it..
Have they ever been in that person shoes, to know how it feels. How hard it is to continue living. How difficult it gets not to feel sad all the time.
As much as people can give all the support they think the person need. There will still be few quiet moments when no one can be there for them, and the thoughts get louder than usual.
So i guess begitula terjadi nya penciptaan lagu ini.
You can have regret for not saving a person, but there is nothing more you can do.
“I pray to God He hear you..”
And who knows they are probably at a better place..
The world is not that great to live in, anyway..
But of course i will give different consultation fr my profession. :)
This is my personal opinion, that only for me myself and i.
Addendum:
It is easier to accept if the pain is due to medical illness (eg: cancer)
This is my perspective from someone who lost ppl close to me due to cancer..
Not 1..but 3..
Having to hear them cry or scream at God to take their lives because the pain and suffering was so unbearable.. it is something you just cant forget.
And there's nothing you can do about it. At one point, even Morphine does not make the pain disappear..
As much as you love that person, you halfheartedly have to agree death is a better option for them...
And you choose to go conservative.. DNR.. or bring them home..
I remember at the funeral, someone said to me..
"At least,, she is no longer in pain..kan.."
*cry a river..because all the memories just rush in*
So my point is, if you can accept such ending for a physical pain, why not for emotional pain such as depression.
Just because you cant see it, does not mean it's not as painful as physical pain.
ok maybe the actual debate is the way/route of dying where suicide is not acceptable..hmm..dang
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